A Normal Observation

A healthy relationship thrives on care, compassion, love and most importantly trust.

Our generation is witnessing an era where boys and girls utter the three holy words in a very easy going manner. It’s good in a way. They are smart; to be specific ‘street-smart’ and even aware. Even if they are a bit responsible about their career, they are quite manageable about their affairs.

                                       

As I am an engineer, I am totally ignorant of human psychology. But we all have been gifted with the wonderful felicitation of ‘common sense’ and via this very little common sense; I managed to make out a few observations.

One from the very few, is:-

Girls and boys are actually practicing ‘management’ to a sufficient and successful level, when they are easily moving out from their houses, tactfully managing their parents. And then they enjoy happily with their partner at a movie show, a dinner date or may be a late night party. And I bet …no B schools can actually teach them this.

(The other observations will follow…)

 Now coming to the mentality of all Adams and Eves of the 21^st century.

A specific percentage of the couples are ready to wear on the tag of ‘flirtatious’. They are quite responsible about the fact that they only stick to casual flirting. If emotions flow in by mistake at any instant, they become perplexed. Some try to continue swimming in the fresh but deep water of love, but get drowned easily. Somehow they hold on to a life-jacket and leaving a deep breath they would say-‘I was fine in the field of flirting, how come I ended up in loving someone? Gosh…thank God , I am out of it now’  

Another percentage are the serious ones. Though less in number, they strictly abide by the rule of a full-fledged relationship and never ever do they think of parting ways. As they have set in their minds that no matter what happens, this is the very person with whom he/she will spent their entire  life. Because they become successful in finding out simplicity in the most complex thing in the world...i.e. LOVE.
He might not be perfect. Nobody is. But I can't stay without him/her.
 Like he/she possesses the good qualities, simultaneously he/she might possess the bad qualities too. And then it is the partner’s responsibility to help him/her to curb out the bad qualities and lead a happy life.

But coming to the most HAPPENING ones, the couples-Who promise with all their heart to hold on to their partner’s hand through thick and thin , but eventually escapes in right time with the fastest pace and with a promise never to return again. They are the happy when all the good qualities of their partner shine in the glares of sunlight, They are happy, when in their rough times, the partner strongly hold on to their hands, they are happy to experience all joys of a love relationship, but when a weak quality of the partner rises up to the surface or if a problem is observed, then instead of dealing it in a constructive manner, they become the happiest to simply BREAK UP…without even thinking for a second what her/his partner might undergo.As they are confident, after squashing a heart, that there are far more better options in front of them.
This is how it goes on-Break-Up and Patch-Up, in today's society.

But can everyone survive to have the same heart, the same mental set-up, the same environment around him/her after DEAR LOVE strangles all the feelings???

Give it a thought...